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Open Communication

Sa relasyon that we engaged with, the most important thing that binds us (of course love and honesty ang lagi dyan) is the open communication. You can't say you love a person when you don't even contact here, diba? So, although malayo kami sa isa't isa but we often contact with each other. Well, the unlimited text and calls offered by the Mobile Operators here in the Philippines is very much helpful sa amin. Before, we were connected with the SMART communication. Kaso, medyo mahal e. Biruin mo, your 60 pesos will only be spent in 4 days with unlimited texting. While sa bago naming network, that is the TM, 50 pesos is already a 7 days unlimited texting. Hindi nga kami nagkausap ng voice to voice but we spend times in texting with each other, telling ourselves what we're doing and kung saan na kami. With this way, lalo naming napapalakas ang aming relation (long distance relationship) and we've shown our honesty to each other.

In Long Distance Relationship

To let you know, I and my fiancee is in a long distance relationship for three years already. See, three years, and with that length, we haven't experience any cool-off situation (nearly break-up instead). Well, how did we manage this relationship? Everybody know that long distance relationship is the hardest kind to manage. Persons who engage this kind of relationship might end up in quiting or finding other guy nearer to them. Actually, at first we experienced a lot of problems, especially the third party entrance, which led us to near break-up situation. Now, to solve that problem, we talked seriously, heart to heart. I asked her if she truely loves me and that she's not looking for someone other than me and telling her that if she will answer these questions with YES, then I will immediately decide that I will be marrying her if she will agree. And as she answered me with YES, I immediately told her what to do, such as: Mag-ingat na wag maagaw ang pag-ibig niya para sa akin...